Controlling behaviors are often hard to distinguish from the normal experience of being in a relationship. If you suspect your partner is controlling, look for clues in how your partner’s behavior … [Read more...] about Recognizing the Effects of a Controlling Relationship
Recognizing the Pain of Emotional Invalidation
“You’re overreacting,” Jake told Amanda. “It’s no big deal.” Amanda looked at Jake with disbelief. He said he planned to go on a fishing trip with his male friends over the weekend. But he neglected … [Read more...] about Recognizing the Pain of Emotional Invalidation
Victim Blaming: A Tactic for Avoiding Emotional Intimacy
“I can’t be wrong all the time,” laments a woman who needs counseling for her troubled relationship. After some probing, I discover that her partner is controlling and blaming is one of the tactics he … [Read more...] about Victim Blaming: A Tactic for Avoiding Emotional Intimacy
How Much Conflict is Normal in a Relationship? Twelve Signs You’re Tolerating Emotional Abuse
In healthy relationships, partners may argue, criticize each other, and use hostile language, but perpetrators know their behavior is hurtful and inappropriate. They feel remorse, have meaningful … [Read more...] about How Much Conflict is Normal in a Relationship? Twelve Signs You’re Tolerating Emotional Abuse